Tuesday, 3 November 2009

Lessons I have learnt...


 9 of 365: Ring me
I may be getting old but I will always wear ridiculous jewellery


Tomorrow I turn 28.


I cannot lie to you, this year has been one of the worst of my entire life. However, these days I prefer to focus on the good, look to the future and learn lessons from the bad things.

Lessons I have learnt during my 27th year on this planet...
  • The only person who can truly make you happy is yourself. You are responsible for your own life, your own wellbeing, your own decisions and choices. If you can be happy with who you are, or even just with who you know you want to be, then good things will come your way. You have to be happy with yourself before someone else can add to that happiness. 
  • Break ups suck. Truly, utterly, completely suck. But life goes on. Always. If things are meant to be then they will be. Whether days, weeks, months or years down the line. It's never too late to try again. Whether it's fate or something else, the things that are meant to happen will happen.
  • Fresh fruit, vegetables, water, green tea and exercise are the key to my emotional and physical health. If I eat well and take care of my body then I feel fantastic. Happier, more in control, more capable and more enthusiastic.
  • Cruel words are easily said but, sadly, not always easily taken back or forgotten. A moment of stupidity and a flash of anger can change things. If not forever, then for a good long while.
  • Second chances (and third and fourth and fifth) are wonderful things and the capacity for forgiveness is one of the greatest assets a person can possess. I've never believed that a person should have only one or two chances at something. Who made that rule?
  • I'm far more capable, and far stronger, than I ever realised. I've taken everything that the world has thrown at me this year and emerged brighter, more positive and, for the most part, happier than ever before.
  • I actually like olives.

Despite all the things I've learnt and discovered about myself, I still really hope 28 is better than 27.

Here's to the next 365....


4 comments:

Elaine said...

Ah, the olives! What is it with the olives! No-one likes them till they hit their late 20s.

Have an out of this world day and year! You deserve it. x

Signed in with a funny account - but it's yer Scottish pal.

Chamuca said...

So I used the little world time function on my phone to figure out when it's midnight in England. I hope it worked correctly.

I did it because I'm gonna be the first person to wish you a happy birthday!

BTW, I love the rings. I'm partial to wearing ridiculous shoes covered in glitter like I'm a 12 year old.

Blue soup said...

Happy birthday. I hope 28 treats you well.

Olives are funny buggers. Sometimes they are delish, and sometimes ming.

Helen said...

Lainey - I only like black olives. Never the green. They frighten me.

Chamuca - You were officially the first. Therefore you rock. Hard. I also have ridiculous shoes covered in glitter. Therefore we both rock.

Blue - Thankyou! xx